Welcome to the year 2017.
None the wiser. My goodness, where has the time gone?
- Long distance relationships don’t work out,
especially when one of you is in a country that still undermines women and their human rights aka Saudi Arabia. This should have been a no brainer… again, none the wiser. - The gym is your friend.
The only one that’s still there for you when all your friends are paired up, planning home renovations and baby talking. - Date younger men.
Nothing is wrong with that. We’re young at heart…. and if we’re still single with no one to go out with except work and “networking” events, we still have time to keep our body in check. Looking forward to 40, I imagine I’d have an even better looking body. Not sure why though since at 30, I’m made of 50% sugar/fat and maybe 50% muscles and can’t lose 5lbs to save my life. As long as they have their sh*t together, right? How about that Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher for two seconds eh? Or currently, Gabrielle Union and Wade. The rise of older women with younger men. You go, girl! - Beat your so called girlfriends to the punchline.
Towards my late 20’s, all I would hear from brunch is, “Christina, don’t you think you’re being too picky? You’re not 22 anymore. Everyone we know is either married, in a serious relationship, or have children.” What I’ve learned is to beat your judgy friends to the punchline and tell the truth. Truth is we’re wired to want companionship, and I’ve been in several long relationships that simply didn’t work out. What a difference that made – same group of friends, their response this time is, “Well, you’re still young, and there’s plenty of people who don’t get married until late 30’s.” Much easier than trying to fight them every time. - Question every single man’s actions every single time.
It’s a dangerous world for a single woman. 100% of women will get harassed in their life. Very high statistics. Been watching too many Korean dramas on Netflix lately (probably because I’m depressed and going through what seems to be another breakup – another story to be had another day), and I’m beginning to think women here should be more careful. Predators everywhere, and we need to speak up every time any little thing happens because that’s the only way change will take place. A high school girl with a 4.0 GPA was prohibited from walking the stage on her graduation day because she wore a shirt without a bra. Or women getting punished for wearing whatever they feel like wearing, while men get away with indecent behaviors. What I say to that is F*CK You to all the perverts and folks who have their priorities all wrong. Women, wear whatever you want, wear a bra or no bra, tampon/pad or none at all on your menstrual days, and give all those backward-thinking folks the finger. Be ruthless, be smart, and always speak up. - Lie about the number of partners you’ve been with.
According to a survey, the average number of sex partners for a woman in the U.S. is 7. Well, let’s be honest, ladies…. don’t be honest because I’m pretty sure that “average number” was also a lie. I’ve been way to honest in my past relationships, and I’m still single. - F*ck dating apps.
They don’t work. They only add to your number. Try going to Meetups or all these networking events your coworkers keep inviting you to. You will meet better quality men – trust me. - If you do the chasing, stop it.
No man really wants an “aggressive” woman – it’s a sham whenever they say they like women who take initiative. It only means you’re probably going to be splitting the check every date. These men disguise themselves by saying they are supporters of feminism. *eyeroll*. I see right through you, you Cheapsake. - Create a bucket-list and start crossing them off.
At the end of the day, as much as I’d love to be married, with three children, living on a ranch with ponies, there’s nothing worse than being with the wrong person.